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To Sara's Smile,
I wanted to thank you for the Sare Bear. I lost my daughter on January 30,
2001 at 4:39AM. I was told that they couldn't find her heartbeat while I was in
labor and that she was stillborn. The nurse brought in the bear and said
something about it but I wasn't in any condition to understand what she was
saying so she put the bear on the nightstand.
I held my daughter for the next 31 hours and spent time getting to know her.
When I finally had to say goodbye to my daughter, Rosalie, and leave the
hospital, I held onto the bear. Thank you for giving me something to hold onto
when I left the hospital. It made a big difference. I have held the bear
when I've been thinking of my daughter which has been everyday since I lost
her. Thank you for giving me something to hold in my arms that are aching
to be holding my baby.
Thank You,
Misty P.
Golden Valley, AZ
To the Campbell Family:
Thank you so much for the beautiful soft cuddly Sara's Bear which had
comforted me after I lost my baby. This precious gift had surprised me and it
stirred my heart deeply from your generous thoughtfulness. It was wonderful to
have my arms carry something in place of the missing baby. Thank you again! May
God Bless You All!
Cynthia
Grand Forks, ND
Dear Kim,
I got my bears today, thank you so much for giving them to me. As I told you
on the phone we lost twins on Feb. 6, 2002, two beautiful little girls named
Karis and Abby. I was almost 5 1/2 months pregnant, past the first trimester
when most losses happen, so we thought we were in the clear. Then our world came
crashing in on us. I thought it would be hard enough to deliver my babies
knowing I would never hear them cry or be able to look into their eyes. But the
hardest part of all was having to leave my babies at the hospital when it was
time for me to go home. I wish I would have known about the Sare Bears then. I'm
still in the aching arms phase, I'm sure it will last for a very long time, but,
now I have these 2 bears to hold onto. Thank you for making your tragedy into
something so comforting. May God bless you and keep you.
Love,
Sherrie
Oklahoma
Thank you so much for your help. Our ladies really appreciate these wonderful
bears and they never leave the hospital with empty arms.
Thank you again,
Connie
Bluffton Regional Medical Center
Indiana
This letter is from a nurse at a hospital in Oregan. In it she describes
how our program is working in their hospital. Here is a portion of her letter:
I just gave a Sare Bear to a mom this weekend. She found her seven month old
dead. They don't know what it was yet, sound familiar? Anyway, it reminded
me...........We have found our moms love the Sare Bear above all the things we
give them because they can hold them and cry with them, just what they were
intended for. The moms do not let go of them their whole stay, they sleep with
them. This summer I even gave one to a seven year old because when I gave her
mom hers she started to cry and said can you hug me with a bear too. It about
broke my heart the way she held that bear and cried for her baby sister. We are
so grateful for the ministry of the Sare Bear. We always put the bear in our
arms and as we hold the mom when she hears the news or whenever we have
opportunity to hug her we then leave the bear in her embrace and they just cling
to it. The Sare Bear is a great tool for any bereavement. Thanks again for your
wonderful gift to families. What a ministry. May God richly bless you as you
have us.
Sharon V.
Dear Sara's Mom,
Thank you so much for my Sare Bear! When they gave it to me at Flagstaff
Mortuary it was a "bright" spot in the whole ordeal! I wasn't sure I
could walk in that day and see my precious son, Derek, lying there in a coffin.
Your kindness and willingness to share in other's grief was truly appreciated!
My mother-in-law also took one home to Chicago with her and I knew it was
special to her. Cody, our 11 year old son, was also hurt in the accident, but
thankfully, we still have him to cuddle. They gave him a bear as well and I know
he will always treasure it.
While we mourn daily the loss of Derek's presence in our lives here on earth,
we do not mourn without HOPE. We know we will see Derek again soon! As a young
child he put his faith and trust in Jesus as Lord and Savior. We are so grateful
to know he is "safe in the arms of Jesus". Thank you for sharing in
our sorrow. May God bless your ministry of comfort to hurting moms.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4, 9-11
Lovingly,
Sharon
Arizona
(3 months later another letter arrived from Sharon)
Thank you so much for writing and sending the beautiful card. I am sorry
it has taken me so long to respond. I am sure you understand. What once took a
few minutes to accomplish now can take weeks or never get done!! We value your
care, concern and especially prayers on this journey we join you in. One wonders
if one will ever be "normal" again. I know not to say "the same
again", we won't. I hurt doubly for my children and what they are facing
missing Derek. By all means you can use anything in the letter about Derek. We
are linked now!! The Sare Bear continues to hold lots of tears for me!!! Thank
you for your ministry to many. Take care. God bless you. Thank you again for my
Sare Bear. Lovingly, Sharon
Kim,
I received my Sare Bear the other day. I can't thank-you enough for your
return phone call to me, your prayer, and for your generosity of sending me a
bear. As I told you on the phone, My Sara was killed in an automobile accident
10-17-2000. She was my only child, my 17 year old daughter, and best friend. I
have included her picture so you can post it on your website, as we called her
Sare Bear also. She became a child of Christ on January 14, 1996, so I know she
is in God's loving arms, I however have been left w/ empty arms and so much
pain. I will treasure my bear always.
thank-you
Amy Iker
Dear Campbell Family,
Thank you for carrying on Sara's memory with your wonderful Sare Bear idea!
My sister lost her child during childbirth and I can't tell you just how
important and helpful her Sare Bear was to her. She knows just how special her
baby is and made sure her Sare Bear was also at the funeral services we had for
her daughter, Rosalie.
Thank you for making something better out of such a tragedy.
Loving wishes,
Lori F.
LHC, AZ
Dear Kim,
And, my personal Sare Bear served it's purpose. I opened the box and was
surprised to see the bear looking bigger than I expected her to be.
Knowing how she came to be mine, I layed on my bed and had a sweet cry. Thanking
God for bringing His comfort to me, and for whispering softly how much He loves
me! He knows every ache, and break in my heart and will eventually heal each and
every hurting part. I thanked Him again for bringing us together as we help
strengthen and encourage one another to reach out to others to show that we
care, and that every bereaved mom must have a Sare Bear!
Love to you and thanks for allowing me to have a part in this ministry.
Jackie
RN, Grief Counselor
Tallahassee, Florida
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